Two Queens And A Joker: My Narcissist's Ex And Me

Two Queens and a Joker: My Narcissist’s Ex and Me is a bold and deeply personal podcast where two women, both survivors of the same narcissistic partner, come together to share their stories, break the silence, and heal out loud.

As parents to children with the same man, we unpack the chaos, confusion, and emotional damage of narcissistic abuse and the powerful friendship and growth that came from our shared truth.

With raw conversations, expert insights, and heartfelt support, this podcast is for anyone who’s been gaslit, discarded, trauma-bonded, or left wondering, “Was it really that bad?”

We’re here to say: yes, it was. But you’re not alone and healing is not only possible, it’s your birthright.

Contributors

Host

Brenda

Brenda, is a truth-teller, healer, and creative force on a mission. 🌊🧠🎙️

A survivor of narcissistic abuse herself, Brenda is a mental health therapist who’s not just helping survivors of narcissistic abuse — she's trying to change the conversation. With deep expertise in trauma healing and a gift for turning pain into purpose, Brenda blends clinical wisdom (EMDR, IFS, somatics, polyvagal theory) with heart-forward storytelling that resonates far beyond the therapy room.

Brenda is co-hosting this podcast that’s part confessional - part rebellion where she, and her fellow survivor-turned-sister-in-arms, Sara, shine a light on the complex fallout of narcissistic abuse, co-parenting, grief, and the fierce magic of female solidarity.

Host

Sara

Sara is the kind of woman who redefines strength. 💥

A healthcare worker with a healer’s hands and a survivor’s heart, she’s navigating life after narcissistic abuse — raising two kids, healing from a recent divorce with a shared ex, and rebuilding herself, one brave step at a time.

Sara is a mom learning not just to survive, but to break the cycle — refusing to let the Joker’s damage define her or her children. With the tools she’s gained through her healing journey (and from Brenda), she’s pushing forward to create a better future.

On the podcast, she brings fierce honesty, grounded insight, and deep compassion. She doesn’t sugarcoat the hard stuff — she shares it real, with warmth and wisdom that helps others feel seen and strong.

Kind but not naive. Fierce but deeply human. Sara is turning her pain into purpose — and helping others do the same.