Two Queens And A Joker: My Narcissist's Ex And Me

Two Queens and a Joker: My Narcissist’s Ex and Me is a bold and deeply personal podcast where two women, both survivors of the same narcissistic partner, come together to share their stories, break the silence, and heal out loud.

As parents to children with the same man, we unpack the chaos, confusion, and emotional damage of narcissistic abuse and the powerful friendship and growth that came from our shared truth.

With raw conversations, expert insights, and heartfelt support, this podcast is for anyone who’s been gaslit, discarded, trauma-bonded, or left wondering, “Was it really that bad?”

We’re here to say: yes, it was. But you’re not alone and healing is not only possible, it’s your birthright.

Host

Brenda

Brenda, is a truth-teller, healer, and creative force on a mission. 🌊🧠🎙️

A survivor of narcissistic abuse herself, Brenda is a mental health therapist who’s not just helping survivors of narcissistic abuse — she's trying to change the conversation. With deep expertise in trauma healing and a gift for turning pain into purpose, Brenda blends clinical wisdom (EMDR, IFS, somatics, polyvagal theory) with heart-forward storytelling that resonates far beyond the therapy room.

Brenda is co-hosting this podcast that’s part confessional - part rebellion where she, and her fellow survivor-turned-sister-in-arms, Sara, shine a light on the complex fallout of narcissistic abuse, co-parenting, grief, and the fierce magic of female solidarity.