Two Queens And A Joker: My Narcissist's Ex And Me
Two Queens and a Joker: My Narcissist’s Ex and Me is a bold and deeply personal podcast where two women, both survivors of the same narcissistic partner, come together to share their stories, break the silence, and heal out loud.
As parents to children with the same man, we unpack the chaos, confusion, and emotional damage of narcissistic abuse and the powerful friendship and growth that came from our shared truth.
With raw conversations, expert insights, and heartfelt support, this podcast is for anyone who’s been gaslit, discarded, trauma-bonded, or left wondering, “Was it really that bad?”
We’re here to say: yes, it was. But you’re not alone and healing is not only possible, it’s your birthright.
Two Queens And A Joker: My Narcissist's Ex And Me
When the Narcissist Sounds Heartbroken (But Isn’t)
In this conversation, Brenda, a therapist, discusses the complexities of relationships with narcissists, emphasizing the confusion and emotional turmoil experienced by those involved. She explains the concept of limerence, the narcissist's manipulative behaviors, and the false promises of change that often follow a breakup. Brenda encourages listeners to recognize patterns of behavior and prioritize their own healing and self-worth, ultimately advocating for empowerment and the importance of leaving toxic relationships.
takeaways
- Being with a narcissist can be confusing and painful.
- Narcissists often wear a mask to hide their true selves.
- They manipulate their partners by studying their likes and dislikes.
- Narcissists may show remorse, but it's often self-serving.
- Recognizing patterns of behavior is crucial for healing.
- Narcissists do not change; their behaviors are often superficial.
- You deserve unconditional love and respect in a relationship.
- Leaving a narcissist is challenging but necessary for your well-being.
- Empowerment comes from recognizing your worth and making changes.
- No one deserves to be treated poorly in a relationship.
Chapters
00:00
Understanding Narcissistic Relationships
02:13
The Mask of the Narcissist
05:56
The Illusion of Change
09:23
Self-Interest vs. Love
12:42
Healing and Moving Forward
Two Queens and a Joker, My Narcissist Ex and Me
is sponsored by the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Center, where we provide therapy, classes, and support groups for people healing from narcissistic abuse. Contact us at www.narctrauma.com.
Moving forward requires breaking free from old patterns and healing is a gradual process that takes time and self-reflection. We'll get there.
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