Two Queens And A Joker: My Narcissist's Ex And Me
Two Queens and a Joker: My Narcissist’s Ex and Me is a bold and deeply personal podcast where two women, both survivors of the same narcissistic partner, come together to share their stories, break the silence, and heal out loud.
As parents to children with the same man, we unpack the chaos, confusion, and emotional damage of narcissistic abuse and the powerful friendship and growth that came from our shared truth.
With raw conversations, expert insights, and heartfelt support, this podcast is for anyone who’s been gaslit, discarded, trauma-bonded, or left wondering, “Was it really that bad?”
We’re here to say: yes, it was. But you’re not alone and healing is not only possible, it’s your birthright.
Two Queens And A Joker: My Narcissist's Ex And Me
The Neuroscience of Narcissism: Understanding Their Lack of Empathy
In this episode of Two Queens and a Joker: My Narcissist's Ex and Me, Brenda and Sara explore the neuroscience of narcissism, exploring how the brain's wiring affects empathy and emotional connection. They discuss the differences between feeling and thinking empathy, the implications for survivors of narcissistic abuse, and the potential for healing through understanding and therapy. The conversation emphasizes that while narcissists may have a different brain structure, it does not absolve them of responsibility for their actions. The episode aims to empower survivors by reinforcing that their experiences are valid and not a reflection of their worth.
Takeaways
Narcissists have a different brain wiring that affects empathy.
Feeling empathy is often broken in narcissists.
Narcissism can be on a spectrum, similar to sociopathy.
The brain's self-focus circuits are overly activated in narcissists.
Narcissists can understand empathy but often use it manipulatively.
Neuroplasticity allows for potential change, but requires effort.
Survivors should not blame themselves for the narcissist's behavior.
Therapy can help survivors but may not change the narcissist.
Empathy can show up for narcissists when it serves them.
Understanding the brain's role can aid in healing from abuse.
Two Queens and a Joker, My Narcissist Ex and Me
is sponsored by the Narcissistic Abuse Recovery Center, where we provide therapy, classes, and support groups for people healing from narcissistic abuse. Contact us at www.narctrauma.com.
Moving forward requires breaking free from old patterns and healing is a gradual process that takes time and self-reflection. We'll get there.
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